Before jumping into it, there are some basic steps to take before putting on your chastity cage. Spending a little extra time at the beginning can prevent potential problems later on.

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Preparation before using a Chastity Cage

Before wearing your chastity cage, there are a few simple steps you can take to ensure a more comfortable and enjoyable experience.

First, carefully inspect the cage for any damage. Make sure all the pieces fit together properly and check for any rough edges or areas that may cause discomfort. If you find anything, you can use fine sandpaper to smooth it out.

Next, prepare your penis for the cage. Taking a shower can improve blood circulation and soften the skin, making it easier to manipulate.


It’s best to put the cage on when flaccid, so if you have an erection, some cold water or ice can help bring it down.

Grooming your genitals beforehand is also recommended. Pubic hair can get caught in the cage, which can be painful and cause excessive sweating. A good shave can prevent these issues.

Lastly, using a high-quality lube is essential. Cock cages should fit snugly for proper positioning of the penis, making it difficult at times to put on (especially getting your testicles through the ring). Using lubrication can make this process smoother and more manageable.

Measering and Fitting for a right chastity cage

When preparing for a chastity cage, one crucial aspect is making sure it fits properly. But how do you measure for a cock cage?

The process can be broken down into two parts: measuring for the ring and the tube separately.

Measuring for the tube is simple – just measure the length of your penis. Place a tape measure on top of your penis with one end pressed against your pubic mound.

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Measure all the way to the tip and take note of the measurement. This should be the length of your tube, but some men prefer it slightly bigger or smaller.

Measuring for the ring is a bit more complicated. You’ll need a calculator to find the right measurement. Wrap a tape measure around the base of your penis and take note of where it meets. This is the circumference.

Divide this number by 3.14 to get the diameter – this should be the size of your ring. It’s okay if it’s slightly bigger, but we don’t recommend going smaller as it could cut off circulation.

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If you don’t have a tape measure, you can use string and mark the measurements with a pen. Then, use a ruler to find out the length.

With these measurements, you can confidently shop for a chastity cage that will fit perfectly.

Wearing the chastity Cage

Once you’re ready to wear the cage, it’s a straightforward process. First, insert each testicle through the ring one at a time.

Then fold your penis downwards and slide it through the ring as well. Make sure that any pins on the cage are facing away from your body so they can attach to the tube.

Next, place the tube over your shaft and align the pins before locking them in place.

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Your cage may have either a padlock or a barrel lock design. A padlock will have a hole in one of the pins where you can place a padlock to secure it. A barrel lock is integrated into the cage and stays locked once activated.

While most commercially available cages follow this design, some makers may use different methods. Some individuals even create their own DIY chastity cages! If your cage has a unique style, refer to any included instructions for proper usage.

What it’s like to wear a Chastity Cage

After being locked, you may need some time to get used to it before finding a comfortable fit. Over time, any initial frustrations will fade away, but it’s helpful to know what to expect beforehand.

One common issue is urination while wearing a chastity cage. With the device covering your penis, you may find it more challenging to use the bathroom without creating a mess. Some men even experience spraying when peeing.


The easiest solution is to sit down to pee. Some cages offer various hole designs or tubes for urination as well, providing plenty of options.

Another common struggle for men in the beginning is painful erections. Your body is not accustomed to the restriction and may feel uncomfortable whenever aroused. However, this discomfort will lessen over time.

It’s beneficial to avoid provocative thoughts at first to make the adjustment easier.

Our best recommendation is to start slowly and gradually increase the time spent in lock-up. Begin with an hour or two and work up to longer periods.

Once past any initial challenges, you can start experiencing the pleasures of chastity fully.

The frustration and temptation of not being able to use your penis, the freedom and submission in surrendering control of it, or even the potential for humiliation and feminization! There are endless possibilities for enjoying male chastity now that your penis is safely locked away.

Can you wear a Chastity cage in public?

As you continue to use your chastity device, you may find that you want to wear it for longer periods of time. This will eventually lead to the decision of wearing it outside of your home. Are there any rules prohibiting this? Is it even legal? Will others be able to tell what you’re wearing?

These are common concerns men have before wearing their chastity device in public for the first time, but most of the time they are unnecessary worries.

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As long as you are mindful of where you are going and what you are doing, wearing a chastity device outside should not be an issue.

If you need to maintain discretion, it is best to choose a lighter and more compact device, such as one made from silicone or plastic with a barrel lock to prevent any noise from metal parts.

However, if you aren’t worried about being caught, feel free to wear whichever device you prefer!

Some men even enjoy wearing larger and bulkier devices so that people may notice the bulge in their pants and wonder what is going on down there.

Can you have sex while wearing a chastity cage?

Some men may wonder if they can engage in sexual activity while wearing a chastity cage, despite not being able to get an erection.

However, this is not recommended due to the potential for pain and discomfort from the different shapes and parts of the cage.

Additionally, erections will be stopped by the cage, causing further discomfort for the wearer.

Fortunately, there are alternative options for pleasure while wearing a chastity cage, such as using sex toys or stimulating other areas of the body.

A penis cover can also be used to allow for regular penetration while still wearing the cage. For more information on achieving orgasms while in male chastity, check out our article on the topic.

Permanent and Long Term Chastity

As time passes, many men start to enjoy being confined in a cage so much that they begin to wear it for longer and longer periods.

Some may even want to keep it on all the time, exploring the idea of long-term or permanent chastity.

If this is something you are considering, it can be a positive experience with many benefits that can enhance your daily life.

However, it is important to take precautions and ensure the man’s safety and consent before making any decisions.

If at any point you experience discomfort or issues while wearing the chastity cage for an extended period, it is crucial to remove it immediately.

When can you take off your chastity cage?

A common misconception is that once a man puts on a chastity cage, he must wear it indefinitely.

That is not the case, as the wearer can remove it at any time they please. Some may choose to only wear it for a few hours each day or on special occasions.

They may also remove it for activities such as using the bathroom or sleeping, and regular cleaning is necessary.

Others may enter into a chastity agreement with another person, where specific rules are set for when and how often the cage will be removed.

This could be for teasing purposes or even for an orgasm if the wearer is lucky, but they will usually have to go back in the cage afterwards.

Tips for maintaining your chastity cages

Like any piece of hardware you use regularly, you’ll want to take some basic steps to make sure your chastity cage remains in great condition for years of use.

Regular Checks and cleaning

When wearing your chastity cage for short periods of time, it’s important to clean it each time you take it off. For longer wear, we recommend taking breaks a few times a week to thoroughly clean both the cage and your penis.

Most cages can be easily cleaned with mild soap and water. Avoid harsh ingredients that may irritate your sensitive skin, especially around such a delicate area. Do not use bleach or similar products.

Be sure to clean all parts of the device, even hard-to-reach areas. Q-tips are helpful for this task. After cleaning, allow the cage to air dry or use a towel to dry it before storing it away. This prevents any potential mold growth.

During the cleaning process, also inspect the device for any damage or signs of wear and tear. Smooth out any rough spots with fine sandpaper and file down any sharp edges.

If you experience any pain or discomfort while wearing the device, stop immediately and check for any issues. It’s important to prioritize your comfort and safety when using a chastity cage.

Proper Storage

Just like any other sex toys, it is important to store your chastity cage properly when it is not in use. You want to keep it clean and free from any dust or grime before using it again.

The best way to store it is in the original box that it came in. But if you no longer have the box, don’t worry, any container will do!

Just make sure to keep it in a dry place away from direct sunlight, as too much moisture can cause mold to grow on the device between uses. A cupboard is a great option for storage.

It’s also important to avoid storing different silicone devices together in the same container. When two pieces of silicone come into contact, they can react and potentially damage each other.

The last thing you want is to go to put on your chastity cage and find that it has started to degrade due to being stored with other silicone items.

Consent and Safety

When considering engaging in male chastity, it is important to prioritize consent and safety. As with any unconventional sexual activity, male chastity should follow the principles of SSC – Safe, Sane, and Consensual.

Safe, Sane, and Consensual: A crucial mantra for any type of unusual sexual practice. The activity must be safe for all participants, rational and reasonable, and fully consensual among everyone involved.

Most men will enter into a chastity agreement when locking up their penis. It is essential to discuss consent not only for wearing the cage but also for any other activities involved in male chastity. Never hesitate to say no to anything that makes you uncomfortable.

Choosing a safe word is also highly recommended. This should be a word that would not typically come up during sexual play and serves as a way to immediately stop any ongoing activities. Words such as “banana” or “giraffe” work well in this situation.

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