How to train a Sissy – Today, we’re delving into the fascinating world of sissification—a thrilling form of feminization that encourages embracing one’s inner Sissy, willingly and eagerly, or through consensual dynamics.

Whether it’s a consensual dance or a result of coercion, we’ll explore 7 different types of sissies, providing tips on how to train them effectively.

7 Types of Sissies 

Having worked with numerous sissies and their admirers, understanding these different types of sissies is crucial. Not only does it help sissies articulate their desires to their partners, but it also aids dominant partners in creating fantasies or training programs tailored to their specific preferences.

1. The Bedroom Sissy:

  • This sissy thrives on feminization that makes them feel sexy.
  • Lacy crotchless panties and a captivating show for their partner are their go-to.
  • Positive reinforcement during training works best for them.
Sissy in bedroom

2. The Subservient Sissy:

  • Aims to please, willingly surrendering power and control to their Dom.
  • Enjoys forced feminization and may seek approval through submission.
  • Responds well to various tasks and training requiring service.
How to train a Sissy

3. The Humiliated Sissy:

  • Thrives on humiliation and degradation.
  • Prefers punishing scenarios and wants to be a hot mess.
  • Ensure activities are within agreed-upon limits to avoid misunderstandings.

4. The Helpless Sissy:

  • A damsel in distress, this sissy requires guidance in everything.
  • Patience is essential as they may play helpless for attention.
  • Reward loyalty with patient training and well-defined boundaries.

5. The Charm School Sissy:

  • Embraces an exaggerated idea of femininity, loving frilly, pink dresses.
  • Eager to learn traditional feminine skills and manners.
  • Responds well to positive reinforcement and may enjoy occasional bratty behavior.

6. The Sissy Maid:

  • Enjoys half-hearted housework in maid outfits.
  • Responds well to training focused on service and feminine tasks.
  • Reward with new outfits or playful punishments with a duster.
Sissy Maid in Kitchen

7. The Big Bad Sissy:

  • Aspires to be the ultimate Sissy, seeking intense commitment.
  • Craves Sissy outfits, sissygasms, and explicit acts.
  • Tailor training to push boundaries and ensure enthusiastic consent.

Remember, understanding each sissy’s preferences is crucial, as what may be a punishment to one could be a reward to another.

Communication is key to discovering suitable rewards and punishments for a fulfilling experience.

How to train a sissy slave 

Your Sissy’s Name 

Sissy wearing Pink Dress

The choice of a name for the sissy should be entirely yours, with no input from her. If this is a long-term arrangement, consider legally changing her name through the court system.

Sissy Clothing Choices 

The next step involves experimenting with clothing. Some argue that what you wear doesn’t matter, but I believe clothes carry energy that influences your feelings. Start by wearing female clothing like lingerie, stockings, fishnet dresses, heels, and wigs. These items will contribute to making you feel more feminine and submissive.

Sissy boy wearing female clothing like lingerie, stockings, fishnet dresses, heels, and wigs

The essence of “Petticoat Punishment” lies in the mandatory requirement for a true and acknowledged sissy. It is essential for all sissies to don clothing that aligns with the age predetermined for them. Many sissies opt for outfits reminiscent of little girls or even toddlers, while a few prefer baby boy attire.

The quintessential sissy wardrobe must be adorned with the frilliest, laciest, and most ruffle-filled garments, infused with a distinctly feminine and girlish influence, adorned with plentiful ribbons and bows.

Dresses prove to be the most effective choice, as the term exudes a more inherently feminine quality compared to a blouse and skirt. and, the sissy should be familiar with frilly socks, knee socks, camisoles, tights, onesies, petticoats, and any other conceivable feminine ensemble.

Sissy Wearing Sissy dress

Diapers and Pacifiers 

Regardless of your sissy’s age, it’s important to have multiple pacifiers readily available for her. Baby bottles are an essential for your sissy, as all liquids should be enjoyed from a bottle. While a sissy cup can be an alternative, bottles are the preferred choice.

Many sissies tend to have a delicate nature. Excitement may arise when experiencing loose bladder control or creating a ‘creamie.’ It is recommended that your sissy wears diapers and plastic panties around the clock, and the louder and crinklier the plastic panties, the better.

sissy wears diapers

Diapers can also function as a natural chastity device for your sissy, making it crucial for her to be diapered at all times without exception.

The decision of whether your sissy only wets the diaper, uses a potty chair for poopies, or is completely incontinent for both pee-pee and poopy is entirely up to you.

Sissy Appearance 

Hair – Whenever possible, a lovely lady like yourself should showcase her real, natural locks. If that’s not an option, always opt for a sweet, childlike hairstyle wig. No matter the choice, your hair should be adorned with charming ribbons, bows, hair slides, or barrettes, regardless of its style or length.

Sissy hair and Makeup

Feel free to indulge in optional accessories like bonnets or little girl-style hats to complement your headgear.

Treat your femininity to a delightful salon experience, ensuring your hair is colored or cut in the latest styles. Let the world know that your little girl is, in fact, a sissy who adores dressing in girly outfits.

Makeup – Every sissy embraces the magic of makeup, and there’s no exception for you. Never let yourself be seen before anyone, especially Your Highness or other esteemed individuals, without the touch of makeup.

Sissy in stockings

Consider enhancing your features with some glamorous options, such as bold eyeliner, pencil-thin brows, and a generous amount of blush for that extra rosy glow.

For a permanently transformed look, think about having makeup tattooed – that way, your sissy will always be effortlessly ready to showcase

Sissy Mindset with Hypnosis Recordings

it’s crucial to get your mindset in order. Consider listening to hypnosis recordings, widely available online, to help shape your submissive mindset.

These recordings can assist in putting your mind in the right place for the experiences and transformations ahead.

Establishing of Roles 

You are the one who holds complete control over your sweetheart. She should embody gentleness, humility, and submission at all times. She must eagerly adhere to your every command, fulfill your desires, and meet your needs without hesitation.

Any lapse in obedience should be met with swift corrective measures (details to be discussed later).

Your sweetheart must rely on you with a childlike dependence for all her necessities. As a result, it is essential to maintain her mental age between 2 and 10 years old.

It’s your choice whether she is permitted to mature or remains permanently in the age you have chosen.

Mastering Feminine Movements 

Following this, try experimenting with movements. Walk around the room dressed up, moving like a woman. You can enhance this experience by using heels, which contribute to more feminine and fluid movements.

sissy bOOBS

You can also consider purchasing fake boobs on Amazon – silicone inserts that can enhance the sensation of being a woman.

Walking, Dancing, and More

Now, let’s focus on your movements. Practice walking and moving with the grace of a woman. Heels will assist in enhancing the movement of your hips, contributing to a more feminine stride.

Consider engaging in activities like dancing or a striptease while playing music. Remember to relax and breathe deeply to fully embrace your feminine self.

Disciplining Your Sissy 

Now that your darling has been lovingly adorned, pampered, and given a sweet name, it’s time to discuss the crucial aspect of her guidance. Encourage her to engage in daily curtsy practice in front of a mirror, dedicating at least an hour each day to this delightful routine.

During the exercise, have her sweetly repeat affirmations like, “I am Lolly, a cherished darling.” Always have her lovingly refer to herself as ‘darling,’ ‘little girl,’ and the like, gently guiding her to embrace her given age at all times. It’s important for your sweetheart to wholeheartedly understand and embrace her identity as a little girl or baby, ensuring there’s no possibility of returning to an adult status.

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Spankings are a most effective punishment for all sissy’s. When you inform your sissy that she is going to be spanked, it is best to have her “BEG” to be spanked.

There are several methods of spanking so use your imagination. It is a wonderful addition to her punishment and she is spanked in front of other “Grown-ups”, an they laugh, mock, and humiliate your sissy, until she is crying tears of pain and tears of shame.

An Introduction to Penetration

As you progress, consider incorporating penetration into your training. Start with smaller toys and gradually experiment with larger ones.

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Breathing and relaxation are crucial, especially if this is a new experience for you. Use lubrication, mimic submissive positions, and focus on embracing your role.

Need for Exposure 

It appears that every sissy, whether embracing it part-time or as a permanent lifestyle, harbors an intense desire to be revealed and acknowledged in her sissified form.

The allure of public exposure acts like a powerful elixir for the sissy, and the longing intensifies with each instance of humiliation.

The continuous taunting and ridicule, directed at her appearance and behavior, only deepen this need. Picture an individual, once an adult male, now willingly or forcibly opting to dress and live as a little girl—a sissy baby.

Self-Guided Sissy Training 

Remember, these steps are a self-guided approach to sissy training for those not yet ready to work with a mistress. If you decide to engage with a mistress, she will guide you through the process, offering specific instructions on clothing, movements, and more.

I also provide these training sessions, so feel free to check out my Instagram for more information.

This week’s sissy tasks for secret sissies in training

These tasks are for those who are a bit shy but want to be their true selves at home and in public spaces.

Let’s start with some easy tasks. First, smelling wonderful. Shower regularly, and to add a little extra, try a beginner-friendly perfume like vanilla. Vanilla is everywhere, from lattes to baked goods, so if you smell like vanilla, it’s subtle and pleasant. You can find trial-sized bottles that are easy to hide and carry a lovely scent.

Now, onto the next task. If you’ve always wanted to wear lipstick but aren’t ready for bold colors, try Burt’s Bees lip shimmers. They offer a slight tint without being too showy, providing a subtle and natural look. Less chemicals, the better, so go for organic options if available.

For those confident enough to wear nail polish in public, here’s a challenge for you. When shopping, buy three boxes of tampons and two boxes of maxi pads, preferably organic. Keep one box for yourself, and donate the rest to a women’s shelter. Reach out to them to find the best way to contribute.

Lastly, when buying Girl Scout cookies, double the amount if you’re getting some for yourself. Donate the extra boxes to a food shelf to support those in need.

Let me know in the comments if you enjoyed these tasks and want more. They’ll become more challenging as we go, building up your confidence to help you be your true self and enjoy life. Until next time, bye!

My Special Sissy Training Tips

Let them choose a feminine name and only use that. If they struggle use an ex gf’s or a crush’s name.

“Force” them to shave / paint their nails / do their make-up and so on. It may be basic, but it is a great start into feminization and it feels amazing being reminded of doing so. During days you might ask them to send proof pictures.

Public Humiliation Tasks: make them post on reddit, make them create a tinder profile and talk to guys. Also ask them to wear panties and a bra during the day (if possible), ask them to get rid of any old underwear the still have – they won’t be needing them any time soon.

Hypno: Ask them to listen to/watch sissy hypno. There are many amazing options out there!

Manners: sit when peeing, walk feminine, close legs when sitting…think ultra-feminine! The girlier the better.

Chastity: Do it. Ask them not to cum for you. The longer they stay chaste, the hornier they get – and that is of great importance for any sissy progress!

Cum: They still will cum regularly. Ask them to eat their own cum. This is a little tricky in the beginning. Cumming on their own face or into a glass (for later use) might help in the beginning. I hated it in the beginning, but now i do it every time.

Anal: sissies gotta learn how to take it up their pussy. Try to teach them a sissygasm. However, this takes a lot of time. Start with them only cumming when having something in their pussy.

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A few things:

Sissification is a lot about consent and communication. However – sissies want to be “forced”. Tell them what to do, don’t ask them.

Do some research into sissification, and check some Sissy captions. There are plenty of things to drive your sissy crazy.

Does feminizing them do anything for you? If so, tell them!

Humiliation is a major part. Talk about their useless clitties.

Hope this may help a little! 🙂

Thanks to Sissiyology

Sissy Training Exercises 

  1. Perfect your strut in high heels: Start by embracing lower heels and gradually elevate your confidence. Practice your stride on various surfaces like carpet, hardwood, and concrete.
  2. Master the art of sitting with crossed legs: Gracefully cross your legs at the ankles or knees, and hone the skill of maintaining this poised posture for extended periods.
  3. Enhance your makeup prowess: Play with different makeup styles, from foundation to eyeliner and mascara. Devote time to perfecting your application until you radiate confidence in your skills.
  4. Cultivate a more feminine voice: Record your voice and carefully listen to identify areas for enhancement. Work on refining your pitch, tone, and inflection to achieve a voice that resonates with femininity.
  5. Embrace submission and obedience: Embody specific rules or commands from your guide, such as seeking permission before speaking or completing assigned tasks.

Sissy Training To-do List 

  1. Create a consistent training routine that suits your schedule and commit to it.
  2. Maintain open communication with your trainer, sharing your expectations, boundaries, and limits openly.
  3. Explore various styles of feminine clothing, makeup, and behaviors to find what resonates with you.
  4. Dedicate time to practice posture, body language, and voice exercises to enhance your feminine presence.
  5. Integrate aspects of submission and obedience into your training as you feel comfortable.
  6. Utilize positive reinforcement to motivate and reinforce desired behaviors during the process.
  7. Always honor your personal boundaries, and adjust the training to ensure your comfort and safety.

Wrapping Up

Keep in mind, these steps serve as a personal roadmap for individuals exploring sissy training independently, especially for those who may not be ready to collaborate with a mistress just yet. Should you choose to involve a mistress in your journey, she will lead you through the intricacies of the process, providing tailored guidance on attire, gestures, and beyond.

For those interested, I offer specialized training sessions as well. Feel free to explore more details on my Instagram account for additional information and insights.